Looking back, two years ago, I finally took the first step to learn Argentine Tango again. In fact, I don’t know when this dance started to attract me. The combination of mystery, elegance and passion always touches my heart inadvertently. However, because of the pressures brought by life every day, I couldn’t take this step. During this time, I experienced some changes in life like everyone else, and these changes accelerated my pursuit of my dreams.
Changes and Challenges in Life
Before the epidemic, due to changes in life, I moved from a big city to the countryside. As a person who has lived in the city for most of my life, such a sudden change made me feel a little overwhelmed. In the city, the pace of life is fast and social activities are rich, but in the countryside, everything becomes slow and quiet. Without the noisy crowd, a sense of loneliness came quietly. I didn’t know how to adapt to this huge change.
When the epidemic came, home isolation made the whole world stop. Although this period of time gave me a chance to breathe, I still felt a deep loneliness, and it seemed that nothing could really get rid of the emptiness in my heart. Although the external rhythm slowed down, my inner struggle still existed.
The opportunity to regain my dream
In this state, a chance chat between me and a friend changed everything. We talked about social dance, and when I mentioned Argentine tango, the long-dormant passion in my heart suddenly ignited again. I knew clearly that Argentine tango was the only dance I really wanted to learn. This is not just a simple hobby, but a way I long to regain the joy of life and confidence through it.
So, I decided not to hesitate any longer, and in August 2023, I signed up for the Argentine Tango course. This time, I told myself to try and experience it well, and stick to it for a while. If I really find that I don’t like it, it can be regarded as fulfilling one of my wishes.
Entering the world of tango
Unexpectedly, more than a year later, I have been completely immersed in the world of Argentine Tango. It brings me not only a wonderful experience in dance steps, but also a kind of spiritual healing. Through tango, I once again learned how to establish a deep connection with people. Every dance is a silent dialogue with my dance partner, which requires complete concentration and trust. This unique interaction has brought me back my long-lost confidence.
Tango is not just an artistic expression for me, it is a philosophy of life. It allows me to experience again how to slow down and feel the present moment; how to find inner strength in difficult situations, and how to resonate with others through cooperation. Every dance is a reconciliation with myself and life.
Healing brought by Argentine tango
Tango not only helped me get out of the trough of life, but also made me re-recognize myself. When I felt low, troubled and lonely, Argentine tango became my sustenance. During the dance, I can completely immerse myself in the rhythm of music and dance steps, and temporarily forget the troubles and uneasiness in life. More importantly, the social nature of tango allows me to meet many new friends. On the dance floor, everyone is sincere and tolerant, and everyone supports each other and shares each other’s enthusiasm and joy. This sense of belonging makes me feel that I am no longer alone.
Encourage you to pursue your dreams
Looking back on my experience, I deeply realized that the road to pursuing dreams may be full of ups and downs, but it is these challenges that make the realization of dreams more worthwhile. The various changes and difficulties in life may make us feel confused or powerless, but they are not reasons for us to give up our dreams. On the contrary, it is at these moments that we need to stick to what we really want in our hearts.
Whether it is Argentine tango like me, or a dream deep in our hearts, don’t be afraid to take the first step. Don’t give up the pursuit of the future because of changes in life. Maybe you will also find your former dream and rekindle the long-lost enthusiasm in an accidental opportunity like me.
Future expectations
Today, Argentine tango has become an indispensable part of my life. It not only helped me regain my confidence and get rid of loneliness, but also made me rediscover the joy of life. I look forward to exploring this dance more deeply in the future, meeting more like-minded friends, and participating in more wonderful dances and activities.
I believe that no matter what state you are in in your life now, as long as you bravely follow the voice of your heart and pursue what you really love, life will bring you unexpected surprises and gains. Please believe in yourself and take that first step bravely. You can also get out of trouble, pursue your dreams, and find your own happiness and satisfaction.